Special Friends and Special Celebrations

Wednesday, March 30, 2011

Special Friends and Special Celebrations

Early March, I made a very special trip down south to Ocala, FL with Rebekah. We were on a mission to celebrate a very special 2nd birthday party for another trisomy 18 child named Caleb. I have been friends with his mom, Jeannette, for about two years. We met on facebook and I started a group called Trisomy 18 Mommies.

Jeannette and Susan

Jeannette is my BFF - we've shared the 'Trisomy Journey' tears, fears, and joys together... but it has always been 'virtually'. We would even talk on the phone several times per week, but we had never met in person.

I was so excited to finally meet her!

Rebekah and Caleb in their 'wedding' clothes.

Before the trip, Jeannette and I joked about dressing up Rebekah and Caleb in wedding garb and taking some photos. Very soon I will have a video slide show of this event! Although it started out as a fun idea, in the back of our head there was always the reality that they will most likely never get to experience a real wedding.

Rebekah and Caleb holding hands. :-)

The birthday party was amazing and I got to meet, not only Jeannette and Caleb, but several other special friends!!

What's really amazing is that Caleb's local news has been following his story from the beginning. Here is a link to the most recent story about his birthday party and all of us who traveled to be there for the special occasion! Caleb Turns Two Amid Support For Edwards Syndrome Kids

They have published several newspaper articles about Caleb and the journalist following Caleb's story recently posted a mini-documentary about him (below)!

If you'd like to keep up with Caleb's story, here is Jeannette's blog.

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Trisomy 18 and Rebekah

Our life changed drastically in December 2008 when our baby girl, Rebekah, was diagnosed through amniocentesis around 20 weeks gestation as having ‘full’ Trisomy 18.

Trisomy 18 (T18) or Edwards Syndrome is a genetic disorder caused by the presence of an extra 18th chromosome. The syndrome has a very low rate of survival, and babies with T-18 typically have complex medication problems resulting from heart abnormalities, brain defects, kidney malformations, spinal cord defects, and other internal organ disorders. Cleft lips and palates are also more common in babies with trisomy 18. They may have hand and foot anomalies. Babies with trisomy 18 may have difficulty regulating their breathing and temperature. T-18 babies typically have severe mental deficiencies and tend to grow/mature at an extremely slow pace. They may also be unable to feed properly and often require G-tubes. Neurological defects cause many problems with these children – the brain simply ‘forgets’ to tell the heart to beat or the lungs to breathe and seizures are not uncommon. The body often just ‘gives out’ after a period of growth and progress.

Because of the large number of potential medical problems, babies with trisomy 18 are usually considered “medically fragile” and the medical community likes to use the phrase "Incompatible With Life". About 95% die in utero. Of liveborn infants, only 50% live to 2 months, and only 5–10% will survive their first year of life. The median life span is five to fifteen days. One percent of children born with this syndrome live to age ten, typically in cases of the less severe mosaic Edwards syndrome. Major causes of death include apnea and heart abnormalities. It is impossible to predict the exact prognosis of an Edwards Syndrome child. Because major medical interventions are routinely withheld from these children, it is difficult to determine what the survival rate or prognosis would be with aggressive medical treatment.

Our Rebekah Faith was born at 38 weeks by induction on 4/21/09, weighed 4lb 6oz, and was 17” long. After 7 days in NICU to establish feeding, address jaundice, and assess her health, she came home with us on an apnea monitor and with a N/G tube for feeding. She weighed 4lb 1oz. An oxygen monitor was then added to the entourage of medical accessories. At the 2 week mark, she was 1 ounce past her birth weight and appears to be doing well overall except for several bouts of bradycardia (low heart rate), and apnea (stop breathing) during each day that requires physical stimulation to reverse. Those episodes got worse, and she was admitted to the PICU at 6 weeks old. At about 7 weeks, it was determined that she had severe obstructive apnea and the easiest and most effective treatment would be a tracheostomy. She got a trach and g-tube, and we haven't looked back since!

Every day with Rebekah is a blessing from God. In utero, she was diagnosed with a VSD hole in the heart, only one kidney was ever seen, brain abnormalities, and she has two rocker-bottom feet with one twisted to the side from malformation of the bone. Once she was born, it was verified that her VSD had closed in her heart, and a renal ultrasound showed TWO kidneys (she has a horseshoe kidney)! She actually fed exceptionally well by bottle, another exception to most T-18 kids. But once she was trached, she was unable to suck as strong as she needed to keep feeding exclusively by mouth.

Our children adore their baby sister and she brings much joy and love to our household. We thank God for this precious child and the path we are on with her.

Rebekah Faith is 'Redefining Incompatible With Life' everyday!

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